Dear Yemisi,
I am an 18-year-old girl, I have been in past relationships which I eventually stopped a year ago because I felt it was not the right thing to do and there are many guys disturbing me and I have developed feelings for two guys.
To cut the long story short, I want to know if it is right for me to start a relationship at this age?
For developing feelings for two guys, what do I do?
Iyanu.
Dear Iyanu,
Your decision to quit your earlier relationships is welcomed and appreciated as you found out that you were not doing the right thing.
The courage that you had to do the right thing I believe is still available for you to tell the guys disturbing you that you are not prepared to be in any affair for now.
To be candid with you, you have nothing to lose if you remain your normal self without any attachment to anybody. Dating at this age is nothing but distraction on all fronts. To have two guys as dates at the same time can be suicidal. There is no way you will share your emotions and feelings with two guys. Why not give yourself a break for now?
and then