Woman! You want to keep your man?

This piece by Bisi Adewale, posted in Dailyfamily.ng  which started  running here last week, is a timely warning to all women on how to keep their men from husband snatchers:

 5) They see sex as a serious business

You see it as a chore, you see it as dirty, you even wish it is removed from marriage, it never crossed your mind. But for these strange ladies, they see sex as a serious business and do everything to keep their clients and customers. They use all marketing strategies, branding, product, packaging, marketing and advertisement.

What To Do: Begin to see sex as a serious business, rebrand yourself, repackage yourself because you are the real product.

6) They treat sex as food of men

Wives are fond of saying “Is it food?” What a foolish statement! It’s not food, it’s more than that, in fact the Bible says it is water (Proverbs 5:15-19). Strange women are aware of the fact that men see sex as food and they serve it hot and better.

What to do: Get into the fray, treat it as the food of your husband. Serve it better than before, never say, “is it food?” again in your life, it is more than that.

 7) Sex is in their mind

Babies, house cleaning, cooking, and washing are in the mind of wives; sex is never in their minds, they never think of it, but away women put it in their mind and their body is ready, no wonder they hardly look tired of it.

What to do: At least two or three times a week, put sex in your to-do list, put it in your mind and see how your marriage turns out to be.

8) They plan for sex

Strange women plan for sex the way you plan for your cooking; they look forward to it and carry their catch along in their plans.

What to do: Plan for sex in your marriage; don’t make it your husband’s affairs to plan for sex in your marriage. Let it be part of your schedule.

9) They set table for sex

Strange women do set table for great sex, soft music, blue light, candle light, perfumed bed, velvet bed sheet, sexy outlook, slippery fingers. Do you still wonder why men are running to them?

What to do: Begin to set table for sex in your marriage, be creative, surprise your husband with sexy outlook when he arrives from work. Children are already in bed, you look “Smatching”, the whole house looks romantic, soft music, dinner with candle light, Hug by the door and kiss on the lips. Who says your husband will not rush home tomorrow.

ALSO READ LAST WEEK POST: Woman! You want to keep your man?

(To be continued)