Create a love-filled and romantic atmosphere
Many couples desire better s3xual performance but what they fail to realise is the fact that achieving better performance does not start in bed, it starts with you creating a love-filled and romantic atmosphere that is conducive for fire to spark between you and your spouse at every unexpected moment. To ensure a love-filled and romantic atmosphere in the home, you must stay in touch with your spouse. This will entail you touching him/her, speaking through eye contacts, sitting together to watch television, send text messages etc. You and your spouse must also create room for proper communication and this requires that you respect one another’s views. Never explain away any complaint from your partner as this brings about tension, rather than romance. Resolve all conflicts quickly however difficult this may be. Never sweep any conflict under the carpet for this will amount to postponing the evil day. Learn the art of playing and cracking jokes with each other for this enhance intimacy between you and prepares you emotionally for s3xual acts.
Frank-talk with your spouse
Frank-talk between a couple that is working towards better marital relationship and better s3xual performance will afford them the opportunity of ironing out whatever might have been constituting hindrance to achieving these goals in time past. This is because rather than assuming what pleases or displeases your spouse, it gives you the opportunity to hear from him/her what you have been doing that you need to stop doing, and what you should do that you have not been doing and vice visa. This will go a long way to make things better between you. It is a wrong assumption for you to think you are satisfying your spouse.
Love must be the motivation and not passion
In satisfying your s3xual urge, it is important you do not create the impression that you are only driven by your passion to satisfy your s3xual urge and not by your love for your spouse. This impression many men create in their wives by not taking into consideration what they need to do, and how they need to go about having sex with their wives that will not just satisfy their s3xual urge, but also satisfy their wives as well. Sex is for mutual satisfaction, and whatever will make the satisfaction mutual should be pursued by the two.
Learn the art of lovemaking
Love-making is an art and must be learnt. Readiness to learn the art of lovemaking by every couple will make them masters at the act, thus make them to live happily forever thereafter. Dr. Ed Wheat of Springdale, Arkansas once says If you do what comes naturally in lovemaking, almost every time you will be wrong. This is because like every other physical activity in life, the art of lovemaking must be learnt. That is why couples must invest in literatures, seminars and conferences, and programmes where such knowledge is imparted. After all, without s3xual fulfilment, a person is not complete.
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