RE: Who do I choose?

SHINDARA, I wouldn’t advise you to lose your virginity to any of them. You can certainly pick the best out of them by denying them the sex they demanded for. Anyone who stays till he finally takes you to the altar is the right guy. The truth about sex is that, it won’t keep them; the rightful person will stay without it. The moment sex comes into a relationship, 50 per cent of important issues would be left out unattended to.

The moment you fall for them and you have sex, you will definitely regret it because you will discover that it doesn’t worth it. Virginity is the best gift a woman can offer her husband. Aside, virginity is peace. Tell them that you are not ready for sex yet, their individual response will give you the lead. Also, don’t forget to pray hard because it is in God alone one can find ultimate solution. I wish you all the best, [email protected].

Shindara, you are not supposed to have a boyfriend at this age, how much more having three….They will only use and dump you. Repent and give your life to Christ, then the right man will come when you are ready for marriage. Satan is out to destroy your future. Please, do not give your body to any of them; but only your husband and that should be after you have graduated and ready for marriage. Garry Simpson [email protected]

Shindara, I will advise that you let go of those guys who cannot love without having sex with you. Better to be slapped with truth than kissed with a lie. The right person who belongs to you will come and stay.Stay away from people that would threaten your peace of mind, self -respect, values, morals and self-worth. Keep    your virginity. You deserve your respect. Go for someone who is not only proud to have you, but will take every risk to keep you. Taiwo Omolaso, [email protected].

Shindara, being in 100 Level means you are just starting your life. If you love yourself, don’t allow any of them who is not ready to take you to the altar to have access to you. Now that your mother has died, you don’t have any confidant again, but God will guide you right. Keep your virginity your treasure till that night you are looking up to. Tell the three guys that you are not ready to go to bed with any of them until your wedding night. If any of them cherishes you, he will definitely accept you. Mind you, you cannot love three people at a time unless you want to destroy your life. Sex is not for fun, but for true love and quality relationship and to raise a good family – 08028131985.

Shindara, it will be good for you to focus on your education first and also move closer to God. When it is time for you to make a choice of husband with prayer, God will show you direction. David, 08134874362.

Shindara, giving sex to any of them is fornication. I will advise you to wait on the Lord, read 1 Corinthians 2:9. –  07034663751.

Shindara, you need connection with God… Ask him to lead you. Don’t  give your virginity to any of them. You need your personal conviction of who to marry. Remember marriage is a life journey –  08163895252

Shindara, please, keep your virginity by avoiding the three boyfriends. Face your studies squarely. Forget about your mummy’s prediction. The right man will find you; the one who will not ask for sex before marriage. Please, learn a lesson from mistakes of others. –  Debra A, 080855631749.

Shindara, give your virginity to all of them since you don’t have a mind of your own or you don’t know what you want/like. 08069447614.

Shindara, if the three are demanding sex, then none is the right person for you, 08088772693.

Shindara, no one deserves your virginity except your husband. Keep it till you are married. The one that love you will stay without sex. –  Mrs Badmus, 08179084247.

Shindara, having sex doesn’t signify love or would it break/strengthens your relationship. I would like you to study those guys to know their strengths and weaknesses and seek God’s guidance in picking one to settle down with. My dear, marriage is not a bed of roses, because when challenges rear their ugly head it is those good qualities you see in who-so-ever you pick that would keep you going. Finally, I would say in any situation, make your dignity a priority. –  Lajide Ladipo 07065787905,[email protected]

Shindara, your late mother has specified to you who to marry. Leave distraction and concentrate on your study. Don’t compromise your priorities. Since you are only meant for a man, you need a child of God in the man of your choice. A word is enough for the wise, your life is at stake. You need to feed your soul with the word of God as you ask for his leading all the way. Odugbemi Samuel Olajide, [email protected]

Shindara, allow the three guys to share your virginity. Ogbodo Christian,  [email protected]

Shindara, your virginity belongs to your husband, not a boyfriend. It will be your best gift to him. Sony P Natson, Prolife, 08023366843

Shindara, my advice to you is to be prayerful and don’t disappoint your mummy. Omolola, 08069284895.