MARRIAGE should not be a stressful venture. Rather, it should be a thing of peace and joy for couples involved and their relatives. However what we witness today is a lot of stressful situations for married couples. As a matter of fact, the married are not the only ones, who suffer the stressful situations; parents, friends, children, neighbours, and religious leaders, all partake in the stress. This is because when couples start their stress all these categories of people are not spared. They have to be involved in resolving the issues of stress between couples. The level of involvement however differs as to the issues involved. There are some issues that can be resolved at the level of friends, while some others may require the involvement of parents and relatives, while religious leaders are also called in to intervene on some others.
Many reasons could be responsible for the different issues of stress in marriage, one of which is lack of adequate preparation by couples and their parents before the consummation of the union. This is a major factor which is the culprit in the issues of stress couples face in the marriage. However, this will not be my focus here. Rather, I want to see how married couples can minimise the stress level in their relationship, and enjoy great fun in marriage. If couples will enjoy great fun in marriage, then the following, among others, must be given serious consideration by the couples.
Internalise the fact that stress is inimical both to the marriage and the life span of the couple. Accepting this fact will energise couples to work at bringing stress level in the marriage to the lowest.
Make the best out of the situations that may arise in the marriage. In most cases, this has to do with economic factors. When the level of lack of fund to meet the needs becomes high, couples become tensed up, and thus snap easily at each other. But a resolve to make the best of such situation will allow them to have great fun in the marriage. They must look beyond the lack, and focus on enjoying themselves. After all, we all will come this way but once. So why not do all to enjoy that one life. My book, KEEPING YOUR JOY, DESPITE THE CHALLENGES, will be quite useful to couples in this direction. Couples must not allow bad economy to take the shine off their lives and marriage. They should find a common ground to always rise above the recession, especially in this festive period, to give each nice treat. If they don’t do it, no one will do it for them.
Create avenue for fun in their marriage. This include setting time aside to unwind through play time even within the confine of their home: watch television together, laugh over issues of lack to douse the tension, as they work out solutions, play games together among others. Just find time for fun despite the challenges.
Make s3x life exciting. One way to relieve tension in the home, and reduce stress is not only to engage in regular s3x, but make s3x exciting for them. s3x is beyond rise and sink, which used to be the traditional method. s3x is great fun when done in the most skillful ways. Just like people deploy skills in their professions, and they stand out, likewise should couples learn how to be skillful in the art of s3x. Many couples lack adequate skills for s3x, and as such do not reach the zenith of enjoyment during s3xual intercourse. That is why many partners seek for s3xual adventure outside the marriage. When great s3x is present in the home, couples do enjoy great fun in the marriage. My book, ENJOYING GREAT s3x LIFE addresses this issue adequately. Interested individuals can call 08112658560 for details about the books referred to in this piece.
Conclusively, marriage should not be stressful, but fun full, and couples should do all to enjoy great fun in the home. I wish all married couples a fun full moments in these seasons of Xmas and New Year.
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