Reignite the passion in your relationship

IT is a fact that you can never forget the passion in your relationship when you first met each other; when you  spend all day, simmering with longing… looking forward to nightfall when you could see your partner  and rip his clothes off. Those were the days. But today, if you want to get hot, you may need to lean against the stove.

Women, especially shut down sexually after being with a man over time, because, sometimes, their heart gets wounded and the man doesn’t know how to heal it. A woman’s heart is connected to her womb. If her heart is wounded, it will close. If her heart is closed; then, her legs are closed.

Staying sexy and keeping the romance alive is intrinsic to making it last. These are few tips on how you can keep the fire of romance alive in your relationship.

Leave a love notes:  Leaving a note for your partner is a thoughtful and easy way to let him know that you are thinking of him. You can leave a little note on the bathroom mirror, refrigerator, or in his briefcase; short thoughtful words like; “Have a good day!” or “I can’t wait to see you tonight” or even “Will be thinking of you today.” This unexpected find can not only brighten his day but remind them that you love him.

Surprise dinner: Instead of cooking just any meal, plan once in a while to make his favorite meal, remember the saying that the fastest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach; make good use of this. You can take a step further by doing the presentation and eat it with the television off. Light candles lay the table with the good china wares that you rarely use, and get a nice bottle of wine. Make this for just the two of you with the kids in bed. The time you put into it is what makes it special.

Send an e-card:  There are lots of sites that offer free e-cards and all it takes is a few minutes during your lunch break to pick one, personalise it and send it to him. It is a welcomed interruption to his work day.

Put on a lingerie fashion show: You can do it all in one night or for an entire week. Try on different pieces of lingerie and do a little runway walk or sexy dance. Keep changing outfits while he admires your body in each one. Before doing this, you can even encourage him to pick out some lingerie items that he wants to see on you!

Sexual adventure: Instead of leaving kisses in the shape of a heart on the bed, try chocolate body topping. Make it romantic and sexy by taking your time licking it off his body from top to bottom. When you spend time adoring his body, you let him know that you truly care about him and his pleasure.

Don’t wait: Don’t wait for a special occasion to do something romantic. It is almost expected on those times and therefore loses some of its meaning. You want to surprise him with something small but thoughtful that expresses your love in a different way than usual. Reminders of your feelings for your lover won’t go unappreciated.

Whether you are married for years, have children or just feel the spark is waning, it is important to reignite that spark.