What next?

Dear Yemisi,

If a young man sees himself as a weakling when it comes to sex, and if friends and medical doctors prescription will always have adverse effect, what will you say or advise the fellow to do?

Your natural and candid prescription will be highly appreciated.

Razak.

Dear Razak,

Who has diagnosed to pronounce you a weakling? What do you understand by this word ‘weakling’? Is your worry based on your inability to have strong erection or perform the real act?

There are a lot of issues you must address before you assume this status of a weakling. You don’t have to give in based on your assumption of being a weakling without finding out what is really wrong with your sex life.

To start with, have you attained the age where your agility is being challenged? Any sane man cannot hold on to a false claim without verifying the false claim. Even if you have been branded one, you have to prove your friends wrong by telling them that they erred by nailing you.

Your friends might have concluded that you are a weakling just because you have demonstrated overtime that you are not the frivolous type that melts at the sight of any lady. Being reserved on female-related issues is not synonymous with being a weakling, hence you must accept their verdict.

If you are troubled over this tag, you better see a medical doctor to actually certify you okay before you take the wrong step in addressing this issue. A medical practitioner who knows his onion will never go out of his way to recommend any sex enhancing drug for you without subjecting you to thorough medical tests to prove the veracity of your claim.

It is not enough relying on your instinct to take to friends’ suggestion on what to take before you can demonstrate that you are okay sexually.

Please, Razak, I hope you are the direct victim and if not don’t shy away from telling whoever is in doubt of his strength the truth not to delay submitting yourself/ himself for examination for the anomaly to be corrected in good time.  Please, on no account must you use any drug that has not been prescribed as you have rightly seen danger in this.