Ngozi (by SMS)
It is most likely that inadequate sexual experience or phobia towards sex is the cause of your current challenge. In order to solve this problem, it will be advisable for you and your husband to read some literature on sex for adequate information. In particular, your husband should spend more time in foreplay in order to get you more relaxed before the actual sexual activity. However, if these approaches do not solve your problem, then you might need to seek medical attention in order to rule out any underlying medical issues.
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