I am a 60-year-old business man whose libido has been deteriorating for the past few months. I am not on any medications for any ailment but my poor libido has become a serious issue with my wife. Kindly help me.
Bolaji (by SMS)
Low libido is a term used to describe a decrease in sex drive that can interfere with sexual activity. While low libido can cause tension in a relationship, fostering doubt and guilt in both partners, It can often be treated if the underlying cause is identified. Low libido can sometimes be caused by a single factor but is more often related to multiple factors that each contribute in their own way. Among some of the more common causes are low testosterone, medications, depression, chronic illness, and stress. There are lifestyle factors that may contribute significantly to low libido in men. These tend to more readily remedied by simply changing or stopping the behaviour. These range from smoking to excess use of alcohol, obesity among other factors. In view of the above, you will need to see your family doctor for a frank discussion on how to tackle the problem at hand. In the meantime, try to remind yourself that the loss of sexual desire is not the same thing as the loss of a desire for intimacy. Even when struggling with sexual dysfunction, make every effort to connect emotionally and physically with your wife. By doing so, you can forge a closer bond and may even end up strengthening your relationship.
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