Martha(by SMS)
Your inability to enjoy sex could be as a result of your frigidity which again could be a consequence of a strict religious or moral up bringing where sex has been strongly attached to sin. It is equally important to encourage your husband to engage you in a good foreplay which will adequately prepare you for an enjoyable sex. If this does not work, then you may need to see a doctor who is a specialist in women’s disease (Gynaecologist) for a proper examination to rule out any possible problems in your body.
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