I’m in a fix, what do I do?

nverseDear Yemisi,

Due to my stature, a lot of men walk up to me. I met a guy recently who is about 15 years older than me.

Though he sounded convincing, but I just want to start my university education.

Please, advise me on what to do.

BussyB, 09076518596.

Dear BussyB,

Your message is not detailed enough for me to offer you pieces of advice, but all the same,

I guess you are on the big side hence the point of attraction. Whatever the attraction is, I am of the opinion that your education should be your first love.

University education deserves full attention and you will be doing yourself a disservice by getting distracted right from your day one on campus.

Considering the age difference between you and the guy who, in your estimation sounds convincing is nothing to worry about, but what that relationship will demand of you.

Learn to live a day at a time and do a thing at a time. You can for now delay having any serious commitment to any man, even if he is older or your agemate.

Find your footings first before you bog yourself down with extraneous demands.

As long as you continue to count your blessings in terms of what you are going to benefit, you will not be in control of your academics as you will not have time for your studies.