Two years after tying the knots, the marriage between one Mrs Alimot Abass and her husband, Jimoh Abass was dissolved by an Igando Customary Court in Lagos over the latter’s laziness.
According to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN), the petitioner described her husband as a ‘House Husband’, a lazy man that loves staying at home doing nothing.
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“Jimoh is a lazy type. He does not do anything for a living and has refused to go out and look for a job.
“He stays at home from morning till night, sleeping and snoring; you won’t see him struggling to provide at least food for the family.
“He fights me whenever I ask him for money or beg him to look for a job,” she said.
The 32-year-old mother of one said that her husband had failed in all his responsibilities.
“Jimoh is an irresponsible husband and father. He has never given me a kobo since the inception of our marriage; I have been the one responsible for the feeding, house rent, and paying our child’s school fees.
“I was reduced to nothing in spite of the fact that I am a graduate. I was forced to do all manner of jobs just to provide for the family, with my husband caring less or doing anything to arrest the situation,” she said.
Alimot said that her husband absconded from their matrimonial home last year, without coming back to ask of her wellbeing and that of his daughter.
“Please court, terminate this loveless marriage so that I can move on with my life,” she pleaded.
The respondent refused to appear in court despite several court summons.
The court president, Mr Adeniyi Koledoye, in his judgment, said that it was obvious from available testimonies and the respondent’s refusal to appear in court that the marriage had hit the rocks.
“The fact that the respondent abandoned his matrimonial home for a year without looking back or caring about the survival of his family is an indication that the marriage has broken down beyond retrieval.
“Throughout the duration of this case, the respondent refused to honour court processes, therefore, the court has no other choice than to dissolve the marriage,” he said.
Koledoye granted the custody of the only child to Alimot and ordered Jimoh to be paying N5, 000 monthly as feeding allowance for the child.
In addition, he ordered Jimoh to be responsible for the child’s education and general welfare.
Na waha for women ooo
Toh! We had you, but this issues is between you and your husband and not the entire world issue. Sort it out between you and him, and not publishing the matters online
What God has joined together is the slogan my sister
Which one is your problem , sleeping or snoring ?
Are we analyzing ‘Acrimony’?
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shut up there and carry your cross Biko… Other people’s crosses are bigger than yours…
Sorry dear that’s what many wives are going through. My advise is u should sit him down & have a talk with him so he can stand up to his responsibility.
Nothing new’ if u can do it u do it to become the husband why he becomes the wife..
Na yorubas
May be he is sexually okay my sister just manage him may be you don’t give him chance in the night ??
U married lazy man or he lost his job?
That is true love
If you were the one sleeping and snoring he not complain,is it a crime for you to work and pay rent?
Must u come to public nd say ds,do u no d Number of WOMEN Doing ds again FOOLISH WOMAN
Is ur cross now carry am
Morrison Uriah, Chisos. Haba! Lol.
Thank God and move on..
“Who knows tomorrow?!” Niko Nbanga of the blessed memory.
When it is the woman that sleeps all day that is normal but a little rest by the man he ll be made a public example. This is why most men die young to impress a woman like you. Certainly he wasn’t snoring through when he found money to marry you or was he?
Wetin wrong in this issue, Man lost his job it has turned to national debate.
the bond u’ve signed for life u’re lucky many are looking for opportunity like tgis
Cosima Wiest
You guys are so biased!
Divorce him and marry a workaholic. I know you will still complain. You can’t satisfy women even at the point of death
Congrats to you, not all women can do it.
That means he is husband material…700trousers
Don’t u know he his lazy b4 getting married
Throw him out
It’s a crime, he is not a shame for himself, even if she working is his responsibility to pay the rent, feed family, unless she is contributing God will reward her,
Was he like that b4 u both got married? Stupid woman.
Morrison Uriah, what are you talking? Hope you are not the type of the man she’s talking about?
Madam ur working is by d grace of God.Stop insulting ur husband.
It your destiny so can u just stop complaining
Get another man ! Divorce is the best solution for that snoring ? simple
You are not talking like an aibo man o….21st century Ibo man!
MILLIONS OF WOMEN ARE DOING THE SAME OUT THERE