So, you didn’t doing extra as a woman can sometimes turn a man off? You need to be careful in the way you present yourself; allow things to flow naturally. No matter how much you want a relationship, you have to be real and be patient with the man you meet or else you will ruin the chances of getting to know each other better.
No, wait! I’m not judging you here, i just have a clue for you to handle it better. In this article, I discuss things that turn men off in a relationship.
1. You like bragging
It is very noteworthy and inspiring to be a woman of value and a successful one. But you don’t have to forcibly make a man see that you have achieved a lot. Did you get this? Don’t take it wrongly, you can discuss what you do by narrating your hurdles with him and how you were able to overcome them but bragging about it sends a different signal like, “I’ve seen it all; what do you want to do?”
2. You’re too relaxed
It is not good enough that you’re not putting any effort to make life comfortable and better for you and your partner. Making your man feel everything about you and him is solely his responsibility can be very overwhelming. When a man realise you are not interested in stepping up either in your work or the relationship itself, he can quit.
3. You’re not organised
Not always organised can completely turn a man off. You’re forgetful, never on time, and your dress is always rumpled. All these mean you basically don’t put yourself together. You have to know and do what you ought to do at the right time, and should be done well. If you do, you’re creating a good impression and he would like you more because he doesn’t have to remind or teach you what to do.
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4. You’re desperate
When you’re on a date or outing with a guy, try to be in the moment. Don’t be desperate to know if he is interested in marrying you. Don’t be too forward; let every conversation be step by step. If he thinks what you both share is worth a lifetime, then you can start to think of life; settling down with him. But before then, don’t be inquisitive and wanting to know everything in one night; he would just go off.
5. Poor personal hygiene
Take care of yourself. Brush, bathe at the right time, moisturise your body and ensure you smell good at all times. Going into a room and changing the atmosphere to the unwanted is not pleasant; and of course your man can never like that. If you’re a woman that doesn’t like to take your personal hygiene seriously, you would definitely end up with someone like you.
6. You demand a lot
Demanding all the time can turn a man off in a relationship. You want him to take care of every single thing; he will run. Don’t burden your man with unnecessary things, instead, fix yourself.
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