Sexual fun in marriage

O NE way to enjoy marital fun is through sex. Sex should not be monotonous, but exciting.: something couples should look forward to. It is amazing why husbands and wives complain of sexual boredom. The only reason I can think of as a factor is  lack of fun in sex. I even remember now that some people call engaging in sexual intercourse as having fun. Fun is something hilarious, exciting and satisfying. So, Couples should get creative in making fun out of sex in the marriage. This will create great enjoyment in the marriage.

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To have sexual fun, couples will have to take their sex life to the next level by doing the following: using the following appoach:

Masculine and Feminine sexual turn on. Husbands and wives need to understand what turns a man on for sex,  and vice versa. These turn ons are basically visual and verbal. Knowledge of this will prepare a couple for sexual fun. Since men are visually moved for sex, a wife will do their marriage a lot of sexual good by wearing skimpy dresses in home, especially in the bedroom, or when they are home alone. This must be a deliberate act to get sexual attention from the husband. Without inners under, she should bend down to pick objects in front of the husband.

Likewise, a husband should verbally assault his wife for sex in house, standing on the existing protocol of being alone. He should tell her how seductive she looks; how irresponsible she appears; how appealing her body features look: the front,back,face, lips, eyebrows etc. All these make the wife to feel being conquered or chased by him, which is every woman’s joy.

Sexual varieties approach. This entails using different types of sex styles as opposed to the monotonous traditional missionary style. To use different types of sex styles creates great fun for sex. By now, regular readers of this column should have many sex styles at the tips of their fingers. If you need help, check the last page of my book, ENJOYING GREAT SEX LIFE.

Not only the styles create great fun, different locations in the house also drive a couple’s passion for sex. You will never know how much fun is derivable from sex if you just stay glued to your bed and bedroom. Trying out the bedroom floor, table and chair, sitting room sofa, bathroom, and inner stairscase, and the kitchen area will convince you on how much fun is available in marital sex. Only keep to the golden rule, ISOLATION. Being alone to do it. There is no better time to experiment with these than the festive period. So have a fun full sexual weekend as you enter the new year. I bet you will thank your stars for reading this, and send me a gift for being so thoughtful and helpful. See you in 2019. Happy New Year in advance.

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