EARLY morning sex has a lot of mutual benefits for husbands and wives as previously discussed. However, the benefits would be derived consequent upon the knowledge a couple has about how to engage in early morning sex. Without the right technical know how, the benefits could be a mirage, or at best, one sided. This becomes necessary due to differential sexual take off points of man and woman.
For the wives, in most cases, sex in the morning is the farthest thing on your mind. Thus, your man may be highly criticised for feeling like it in the morning, especially for the religious mind that wants to wake up doing the first thing with her God, that is, praying. To such a one, sex in the morning becomes a sin or a taboo. But when you have learnt how to enjoy the “good morning” sex, you stand to derive great fun from it as well. So, find out ways of banishing those unsexy “I just woke up” feelings so that you can enjoy the good morning sex.
Refresh before the act
One way to help you play along, as a wife, is to fresh up a bit. It makes you feel like it, stay alert and ready to get in the mood. According to Goldman, you can tell him before the action starts you give him 30 seconds to get ready for some mind blowing sex. You can then enter the bathroom to get refreshed and take care of whatever may be making you feel “unsexy.”
Adopt adequate sex positions that make morning sex enjoyable for women
Another way to make early morning sex mutually pleasurable is to use relevant sex positions. Since women may not have lots of energy for sex in the morning unlike their partners have, couples should adopt positions that are easy, but still make hitting the right spots in her a topmost priority. For example, spooning is an ideal morning position according to sex counselor, Trina Read, author of “Till Sex Do Us Part”. Many people sleep in the spooning position, and thus make it easy for him to fondle the breasts, and also touch her clitoris.
Another position you can try is “man on his side, woman on her back, “with her legs over his hips to have him enter you”. In this position, your bodies will form a “t” shape. This position is helpful if you have not brushed your teeth yet, because you are not facing each other, according to Read. It also puts him in at the perfect angle to hit her G spot with ease.
Other positions that also make the woman to relax, while the man is doing the energy sapping work out will definitely assist the woman to respond to the morning sex the more, without the feeling of tiredness. The previous write up on sex positions in this column will provide you with guides on positions you can experiment with, till you discover which one will serve the best interest of both of you; that is, for the pleasure of husband and wife. My book, “Enjoying Great Sex Life”, offers information on different sex positions for couples.
Make it a surprise package
An early morning sex attack on your husband could be highly rewarding, and a special surprise package for him, once in a while, or on special occasions such as wedding anniversary, his birthday, valentine day, or to end a quarrel. It will drive him to the peak of appreciation you may better imagine.
Surprise him by waiting for him till he enters the shower; then position yourself naked on the edge of the sink, or the door, or on the bed. When he pulls back the shower curtain, or opens the bathroom or bedroom door, he will be thanking God for you for understanding how to be creative in giving him sexual pleasure. It is also a sure bet for an all day thought about you, that will drive him to his wit end of nice acts, including a gift of a life time. I can assure you he will definitely reciprocate as soon as possible.
It is a good way of specially saying good morning to each other, especially where you have been picking quarrel over who should first say good morning. It’s amazing what couples quarrel about at times. So, don’t think it’s funny. If you have been thinking of a way of calling a truce, a surprised early morning sex should be topmost on your mind.
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