Yejide Oba, an entrepreneur and digital creator, is the founder of Alpha Mama Podcast: a platform on YouTube, Apple and Spotify that focuses on empowering women through community building, podcasting and visual creativity. In this interview with YEJIDE GBENGA-OGUNDARE, she speaks on women in politics and leadership, cyberbullying and false stereotypes among other issues.
You are into many things, how do you function effectively in those roles?
It is true that I do many things but my passion for women’s empowerment, community building, home making and storytelling intersect through Alpha Mama; the podcast and events we host for women, online community and charity. Everything focuses on supporting women’s growth, challenging societal norms and fostering paradigms and connections.
What do you have to say on the importance of the podcast?
Alpha Mama Podcast explores topics relevant to women’s lives, from motherhood and self-care to entrepreneurship and leadership. We aim to create a safe space for women to share experiences, learn from each other and find inspiration.
When you want to start new things, do you feel jittery?
I definitely do sometimes, it’s just that I acknowledge the nerves and then, I focus on my ‘why.’ I remind myself of the impact I want to make and the women I’m serving. It’s important to note that preparation, research and support from my husband and loved ones also help me build confidence.
What are your thoughts about women in politics and leadership?
I personally think women’s participation in politics and leadership is crucial for balanced decision-making. My grandmother (who I never got to meet but heard stories about) was a politician and she was a beacon and voice for women; she is a great inspiration of mine. I know we all don’t have to be politicians but we can lead in various positions we find ourselves in the society. We need more women in positions of power to ensure inclusive policies and representation. I believe education, mentorship and empowerment programs can help bridge the gap.
Do you agree with the assertion that religion and culture aid violation of women rights?
I think that while religion and culture can provide valuable guidance, they should not be used to justify violating women’s rights. We must interpret teachings in context, prioritize human rights, and promote equality of all humans.
Many people have some negative ideas about women aspiring for greater heights in positions considered a male domain. Are these negative views justified?
These views are unjustified and stem from outdated stereotypes. Women have proven themselves capable leaders in various fields. We need to challenge biases, promote education and support women’s advancement. I have seen that when women advance, our homes and society advances as a ripple effect.
Many women face bullying on social media, what do you think is responsible and how can it be handled?
Social media bullying of ambitious women often stems from societal attitudes perpetuating misogyny and patriarchal norms. Platforms must implement stricter policies, and we must promote empathy, education, and online kindness amongst ourselves as a society.
There is a kind of stigma on single mothers, is this justified?
I’m going to sound bias but what I will say now is the truth. The stigma on single moms is unjustified. My mom raised us alone for years and she pulled through and raised kind, hardworking and ambitious adults in/for Nigeria to the best of her ability. It’s worthy of note that single mothers face unique challenges, but they are resilient, capable and deserving of support. I hope that we can focus more on providing resources, not judgment.
Will you say the Nigerian society is fair to women?
Nigerian society has made a lot of progress, but there’s still much work to be done. Women face various challenges, from inequality in families and society, to access to education/opportunities and healthcare. We need policy changes, education and advocacy to create a more just society.
Do you think there’s a restriction on women in the professional circle in Nigeria?
Yes, women face restrictions, biases, and glass ceilings. We need to promote diversity, inclusion, and equal opportunities. Organizations should implement policies supporting women’s advancement. And I hope that women continue to forge ahead without letting the restrictions hold us back. We are trying our best. We will continue to try, for ourselves, our families and society at large.
What do you think about the advocacy for multiple streams of income?
I strongly advocate for women’s financial independence. Having multiple income streams empowers women to make choices, support themselves and their families and also contribute to economic growth our country at large.
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