Zambian man refuses to penetrate wife’s ‘goal post’ for 7 years, citing hygiene

WHILE many men work hard to woo and dribble their way to the heart of their wives with romance so that they could render them defenseless and score in the open goal posts, a man in Lusaka was intentionally failing to score due to a dirty playing field.

A 59-year-old man of Lusaka’s Garden compound narrated to the Matero Local Court how he has not been able to touch his wife for seven years because her low level of hygiene had drained his s3xual appetite for her.

Patrick Kansunwa, a driver, decided to finally end his marriage of 13 years with Loveness Kakapizye aged 49 due to the fact that she has a bad relationship with water and avoids bathing at any cost.

Kansunwa said his wife’s lack of hygiene started two years into their marriage when he started receiving calls from people that Kakapizye had been drinking alcohol while he was away for work as a driver.

He shared that the wife’s drinking habits started worsening as she could even stooling in her own clothes once she was drunk.

Kansunwa said not even the Equatorial Guinea videos would make him feel enticed enough to touch her.

“She is very dirty, so I started losing interest in her. My body could not be moved even if I saw her naked after a long time because I would always find her smelling bad. She even reached the extent of releasing stool in her own clothes” complained to the defendant who sued for divorce.

But his wife begged to differ, revealing that Kansunwa was also a beer bender who also left fecal matter in his trousers once intoxicated.

Kakapizye complained about the husband’s abusive nature and seven years drought of how her husband was failing to touch her since 2017

“When we got married, he beat me three days after our kitchen party for buying three new pants. He is too jealous of me. He went on and impregnated another woman when I am his fourth wife already. He even squandered his NAPSA partial withdrawal alone.”

“And each time I’m washing, I find fecal matters in his boxers and his defense is always that it was because he used tissue and not water to clean himself,” said Kakapizye.

In passing judgment, Magistrate Harriet Mulenga granted the couple divorce, citing gender-based violence and lack of conjugal rights as some of the main causes of the divorce.

“This marriage was competing in drinking alcohol. If the other one poops on herself, the other one would attempt to stab the partner and you were endangering your lives without considering your children. The court will however divorce you and order that plaintiff compensate the defendant with K15,000,” said the magistrate.

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