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Don’t lose guard! 6 things to avoid when visiting in-laws for the first time

Visiting your in-laws for the first time can be a nerve-wracking experience. It’s essential to make a good impression and show respect to your partner’s family. Being a first-timer doesn’t mean you should lose your guard. And that’s why I put this together for you.

These are some things to avoid when visiting your in-laws for the first time.

1. Being Overly Nervous

Feeling nervous is natural when meeting your in-laws for the first time, but try not to let your nerves get the best of you. 

Take deep breaths, remind yourself to stay calm, and focus on being yourself. Your in-laws will appreciate your authenticity and genuine demeanour.

2. Overlooking Cultural Differences

If your in-laws come from a different cultural background, take the time to learn about their customs, traditions, and etiquette. 

Showing respect for their cultural practices demonstrates your openness and willingness to embrace their heritage. 

3. Talking Too Much or Too Little

Finding the right balance between being engaging and respectful can be challenging. Avoid dominating the conversation or remaining too quiet and withdrawn. 

Instead, actively listen to your in-laws, ask questions, and contribute to the conversation when appropriate.

4. Ignoring House Rules

Every household has its own set of rules and expectations. Before your visit, discuss any specific guidelines with your partner to ensure you know what’s expected. 

Respect your in-laws’ home by adhering to their rules regarding things like smoking, drinking, and mealtime etiquette. By the way, first impression they say? Good!

5. Bringing Up Controversial Topics

During your first visit, steer clear of controversial topics such as politics, religion, or personal finances. 

These subjects can lead to heated debates and uncomfortable situations, potentially overshadowing the purpose of your visit.

6. Forgetting to Express Gratitude

Show appreciation for your in-laws’ hospitality and kindness by expressing gratitude throughout your visit. 

Thank them for hosting you, compliment their home or cooking, and consider bringing a small gift as a token of appreciation.

Visiting your in-laws for the first time can be a memorable and enjoyable experience with the right approach. 

By avoiding common pitfalls, you can make a positive impression and lay the foundation for a strong relationship.

Ayobami Sanusi

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