Who would you prefer: Poor, caring dude or rich, uncaring one?

When it comes to serious relationships, money and care are vital ingredients women look out for in men they are interested in. COMFORT OYEDOKUN and ITUNU OGUNSOLA sampled the opinions of ladies to know who they would choose between a poor, caring dude and a rich, uncaring one. Their responses:

 

Opeoluwa

I would prefer a poor, caring dude. A caring man is much better even if he is poor, because peace will reign in our family. Such a man would be there all the time. Whenever I am sick, a caring man would surely go to any length to take good care of me. Mostly, whenever I am in a difficult situation, he would be able to relate with me and see me through the difficulties. Conversely, in similar trying situations, a rich, uncaring dude would prefer to travel and leave me and our children all alone, even when we are not happy. For me, a rich, uncaring dude would  not allow peace to reign whenever he is with me.

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Mariam

Without a second thought, I will go for a poor, caring dude. This is because I will have my own job. The question does not say I will be poor. If I am at peace at home with the little I have, I will be happy and willing to help my spouse.

 

Rukayat

For me, a poor, caring dude is okay. One day, things will positively turn around for him. When a man is caring, he will be there for me when I am pregnant and when I am in pain, unlike a rich, uncaring man that would not care about me. A caring dude will care about what I want and will make sure it is available for me. More importantly, he will give me peace of mind.

 

Aminat

I would choose a poor, caring dude. It is good to show love. I would prefer to suffer with a man so that we will both own the money we make together, and so that he would not claim that he owns the money alone. Whenever I need something, I will be free to ask him. He will always be there for me, even if he does not have money.

 

Adenike

I would prefer a rich, uncaring dude. When there is money, I will have everything. I am not ready to suffer with a man. Nowadays, men are not reliable. For me, money occupies 70 percent of a relationship. When I get married to him, I will pray for God to change his heart so that he would be caring.

 

Oreoluwa

I will love to choose a poor, caring dude. The reason is that, when a man is caring, he will be able to take care of you and the family. He will be there for me anytime I need him. I cannot choose a rich, uncaring dude because money is not everything in life. There are some things money cannot buy. Things like love. If my spouse is caring but poor, I believe that with prayer and hard work, we will make it and become rich someday.

Toyosi

I will go for a poor, caring dude. Money is not everything in life. I love a man to be caring even if he is poor. A rich, uncaring dude that I do not know the root of his riches would treat me like a trash.

 

Moyinoluwa

I would prefer a poor, caring dude because a poor man will not remain poor for life. It is only a matter of time, and things will get better. So far he is caring, I will be happy with him. A poor, caring dude will always want the best for me and will be ready to listen to my advice, unlike a rich, uncaring dude that will be too proud and will always prove that he is right even when he is wrong.

 

Aderonke

A poor caring, dude is fine by me. He will care for me. Money is not everything in life. Money can not buy love. Love is the most important thing in a relationship. A rich, uncaring dude will not love me wholeheartedly.

 

Esther

I prefer a poor, caring dude. He will show me love. That is all I need in relationship, rather than someone that will not love me. When a man is not caring, he will not love his wife. Without love, money is just a waste.

 

Oreoluwa

I prefer a poor, caring dude because he will take care of me. He will be there for me, and always want my happiness all the time.

 

Bola

A poor, caring dude is preferable. If there is love, there is everything. So far he is giving me attention and everything I want that is the paramount thing. The reason why I cannot choose a rich, uncaring dude is because men are naturally wicked. For him not to be caring, the home will be like hell. Men are arrogant without money. When the money is there, they become more arrogant. So, I prefer to be with someone that will care for me.

 

Motunrayo

I will prefer a rich, uncaring dude. For me, money is everything in life. Money is the foundation of any relationship. Even if he is not giving me attention, so far he is giving me money, I will be fine. Once you do not have money, you are nothing.

 

Mercy

A poor, caring dude is okay. Money is important, but love is more important. An uncaring dude will not love you. However, if you start together with a poor, caring man and there is love, you will make it. When you are with someone you love, there will be understanding, peace and love. An uncaring man will not care about you.

Anuoluwapo

I will prefer a poor, caring dude. This is because money without happiness is suffering. A poor dude will  be rich one day as long as he is hard working. It is better to suffer with a man that loves you than a man that does not love you.

 

Funmilayo

I prefer a poor, caring dude. That he is poor today does not mean he will be poor tomorrow. A poor, caring dude will love me, and there will be understanding. Such a man will know my worth. There is hope that he will still become rich.

 

Kaosarat

A poor, caring dude is okay by me. In a relationship, money is nothing without love. I know that with prayer, everything will be okay. It is not as if I do not like my man to be rich, but a happy home matters a lot. I cannot have a happy home with someone that is uncaring. Love is much more than money.

 

Grace

I prefer a poor, caring dude. Being poor does not mean he would not have a better future. Caring is the most important thing, even if he is poor. When the money comes, the caring part will still be there. Every relationship is based on understanding. I will not ask more than what he can afford. And also, relationship is based on agreement. I will agree with him so far he agrees with me.

 

Osemen

For me, I prefer rich, uncaring dude. Money is everything. If he is not making me happy, I would decide to make myself happy, as long as he is giving me money to do whatever I like. I can make myself happy by going out to have fun and buy whatever I like.