Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh channels a different course for her life.

Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh, has, since the birth of her child, channelled a different course for her life. The actress, who has been off the movie scene to care for her child, has taken it upon herself to advise youths.

According to a post which the actress wrote on instagram “Many beings waste years of their lives, chasing after people they can’t have, or lifestyles that aren’t sustainable for reasons we don’t know. You can’t have a person, either they will f*ck with you, or they won’t. Nobody is out of your league, they just don’t want you in their life.”

She continued, “We are all human, so we all make mistakes, but a mistake made twice is a choice. Try not to seek the best looking, or those with the most money, for these are superficial ideas and money doesn’t make you happy. You make you happy. So if you are in a situation with a person and you have the freedom to choose, but you are unhappy, this is your fault, not theirs. Stop wasting your time.  Leave the situation, you should be looking for someone who shares sympathetic vibrations”.

Although the actress did not state who she was advising, she made it clear that she just wanted to pass a message  to young people in wasteful relationships. “Everything is a vibration, positive or negative. All elements are made up of atoms. And these are made up of a nucleus, protons (positive), neutrons (no charge) and electrons (negative). Opposites attract, but if someone is in a negative space, you being in a positive space, isn’t necessarily going to help them and vice versa. You choose your own happiness, as you can choose the people you are around. (Obviously free from war, famine, poverty, drought, oppressive systems of government/religious opinions, disease etc) If you aren’t happy within yourself, you can’t be truly happy around others. Don’t chase waterfalls on the surface they appear beautiful, but they are usually hiding rocks that will kill you,”she admonished.