I am a 22-year-old lady. I am still a virgin. Anytime, my boyfriend is trying to have s3x with me, I usually feel pain but I want the s3x. Kindly let me know what to use to reduce the pain.

Funke (by E Mail)

• My dad started having s3x with me at 12, I later got pregnant

The pain you are feeling could be from the fact that you are not relaxed enough for the s3x because you are not emotionally ready for the act. It could also be that your boyfriend is not experienced enough for the act or like you, not emotionally ready for s3x. For these reasons, it will be good for both of you to wait until you are married before having s3x. Apart from having s3x in a relaxed atmosphere, without any emotional hang-ups, having s3x during marriage also makes you avoid diseases and unwanted pregnancies.

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