Why couples don’t achieve sexual climax

Sex is fun, it feels good, and is a great way to be physically and emotionally close to your partner. But without an orgasm or sexual climax, it can be a less satisfying experience for both people involved. Orgasm, is the climax of sexual excitement, which comes with intense muscle tightening around the genital area. This is experienced as a pleasurable wave of tingling sensations through parts of the body; which leads to a feeling of complete fulfillment after a sexual activity or experience.
However, there could be physical or emotional reasons why you are not experiencing a sexual climax. With the right diagnosis, and possibly a sex therapy, you can learn how to acheive orgasm and have a satisfying sexual relationship.
Some people feel the issue of not having orgasm is absolutely for women only, this is wrong because, both men and women experience this problem. The good thing, however, is that, help is available for both sexes. While some women may have difficulty achieving, men also can have orgasm difficulties as well, especially if there are physical or emotional issues at play in the relationship.
Reasons why some people cannot have orgasm or climax during sex, these includes; Not having an orgasm at all, having a delayed orgasm; taking a long time or needing a lot of stimulation to achieve orgasm. Not having a satisfactory orgasm, delayed ejaculation and ejaculation without orgasm
Some potential causes of these problems in women and men could be as a result of problem/ problems in the relationship boredom in the bedroom, emotional or physical trauma, like rape or abuse. Others include, health conditions that affect nerves or hormone levels, being shy or embarrassed about sex.
Lack of education about orgasms, sex, and what form of stimulation works best for you. Side effects of certain medications, including some antidepressants. Fear can keep both sexes from experiencing orgasm. Being afraid of letting go, afraid of going crazy; fear, in other words.
Another explanation; the physiologically aspect; this could be that they are not getting the right stimulation. If either a man or a woman is used to achieving an orgasm with his or her own hand; masturbation, someone else’s touch and body part might seem strange and this could hinder sexual climax or orgasm.
Getting help
Most doctors and therapists do not have training in sexuality and sexual problems. If you are experiencing difficulty achieving an orgasm, seeing a sex therapist may help root out the reason and get the right treatment. A sex therapist can also help to determine if you are having a physical problem, and recommend that you see a physician.
To help identify the problem, a sex therapist will ask about your sexual history. Be prepared for topics to include a frank discussion of your current partners, masturbation practices, and the nature of your symptoms. A sex therapist will also ask about your expectations of sex and what you want to achieve in your sex life.
If there is a medical problem, your doctor will prescribe the appropriate treatment. And if the cause is psychological, working with a sex therapist can help.
For the female orgasm, a woman should learn how to orgasm by herself and realies exactly what kind of stimulation it takes, including whether she needs to fantasise in order to have an orgasm.
For men, the process is similar. Part of the solution is the same for men and women when it comes to sex; you need to talk about it with your partner. If you want to achieve multiple orgasms or just feel uninhibited in the bedroom, you have to be open about your wants and needs.
While it could be normal to be embarrassed to talk about these intimate issues or be afraid of your partner’s reaction, you have to open up. If you can’t relax because of some unresolved problem between you, even if it is because the house is a mess; you must address it if you want to have a satisfying sexual experience.
Talk about what you want, what you like, and what you need because if orgasm difficulties are affecting you, they are also affecting your partner.
Talking about sex and intimacy will only bring you closer together, and help ignite the fireworks you are looking for in the bedroom.

To be continued