You’re about to propose. It’s one of the most important moments of your life. And the ring is going to play a big factor in whether your partner says yes or not.
Nervous? You’re not alone. Everyone is afraid before a proposal.
Taking the time to think about your partner’s personality, what they like, and how your choice of ring can reflect that is always good practice.
Here are some tips to help you choose!
1. Classic
A gold band with a single diamond – it’s classic. It’s timeless. It’s hard to beat.
There’s an amazing range of engagement rings to choose from, but sometimes the old ways are best.
If you’re unsure what type of ring your partner wants, this is the safest bet. A beautiful ring with a beautiful stone has a style of its own. It transcends personal preferences and simply says – “I love you. Will you be mine?”
You can make subtle changes based on what your partner likes. If you know they’re looking for a big stone, you can prioritize size over substance. Higher-quality diamonds cost a lot more, and if you want a big, showy stone, it’ll be hard to find one of the highest quality. But size is super-important for some people.
The choice of metal also makes a difference. Consider what color jewelry your partner wears. Silver or gold? Platinum is the highest-value precious metal for silver rings, but white gold is also an excellent choice. Sterling silver is much more affordable, but tarnishes more easily than the others.
The choice is yours, but you can’t go wrong with a classic design.
2. Showy
Does your partner love to show off their sparkle? A huge centerpiece stone with myriad diamonds surrounding it, such as a halo ring, make a dazzling impression.
These rings are perfect for anyone who wants their love to shine bright. They complement stylish dressers and people who love to show what they’ve got – it’s quite a statement.
The overall carat weight of the extra diamonds means that these rings are often somewhat expensive, but jewelers often run discounts on specific rings, and it’s worth keeping an eye on these and making your purchase at the right moment – it can save you so much money.
3. Perfect
Size doesn’t matter to everyone. Quality over quantity is often the best way to go.
A flawless diamond is hard to come by, but near-flawless diamonds are virtually indistinguishable without using a gemscope. They sparkle like no other gemstone – the clarity of the stone means that they reflect light in a unique and stunning fashion. These are worth so much, even if they’re smaller than other stones.
They truly show what you think of your partner – flawless (or close enough)! Buying a perfect diamond is an incredible show of commitment and devotion.
4. Alternative
Does your partner enjoy unconventional things? Good on them! They’ll likely want a stone that reflects their fierce individuality.
This writer once had a drop-dead cool friend who swore she’d leave her partner if he proposed using a boring ring. She wanted him to show that he knew her.
Come the day of the proposal, he proposed with a jet-black ring adorned with a skull with a flawless diamond between its teeth. It was everything she wanted, and they remain happily married to this day.
If your partner loves to be different, never be afraid to show that you understand and respect that. Think of what they’ll love – not what they’ll settle for!
Final Thoughts
If you’re confident that you know your partner, then you probably already know what type of engagement ring they’ll love.
Trust your judgment. Speak to an expert jeweler. Ask your partner’s friends.
Make the right choice, and enjoy your happily ever after!
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