10 Golden secrets of marriage

Everyone has a weakness

ONLY God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse’s weakness, you can’t get the best out of his/her strength.

Everyone has a dark history

No one is an Angel; therefore, avoid digging into one’s past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. Try to forgive and forget. The past can’t be changed. So Focus on the present and the future!

Every marriage has its own challenges

Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proven in time of challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of need. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!

Marriages have different levels of success

Don’t compare your marriage with another! We can never be equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.

To marry is to declare a war

When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: ignorance, prayerlessness, unforgiveness, adultery, third party influence, stinginess, stubbornness, lack of love, rudeness, wife battery, laziness, divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

There is no perfect marriage

There is no readymade marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back hassles and if these parts are not properly maintained, the car will break down along the road, exposing the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. Many of us are careless about our marriage… Are you? If you are, please pay attention to your marriage.

God cannot give you the complete person you desire

He (God) gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould into what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray for one hour but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve.

Marriage is a risk

You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as the situation may change. So, leave room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come as soon as you desire. You may have married her because of her slim physique but she may become 100 percent fatter after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at last.

Marriage is not a contract

Marriage needs total commitment; love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce.

Every marriage has a price

Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdraw. If you don’t deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage; you cannot love without giving and sacrificing. (Author Unknown).

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