My husband’s organ is too big

askI am a 25-year-old newly married lady. Because of my religion which forbids premarital sex, I married my husband as a virgin. Even though he is a very nice man, he hurts me each time we make love because of his very big organ (penis). Things are so bad that I am sometimes scared of making love to him. Kindly help me to save my marriage.

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I think that what is missing here is lack of adequate foreplay which will prepare you for an enjoyable sexual relationship with your husband. This defect could be as a result of sexual naivety on behalf of your husband and yourself. The vagina when well lubricated and with an understanding partner can adequately cope with any size of penis. For this reason, it will be helpful if you and your partner could consult the appropriate literature and visual aids which are readily available in the market, to assist you in having an enjoyable sexual life. It is only if this approach does not work that you can consult a doctor for an examination in case you or your partner have some physical challenges which may be contributing to your sexual problems.