Can I use a vibrator?

After my husband’s death a few years ago, I resolved to keep away from any relationship until my children are out of school. In order to take care of my sexual urges, a friend introduced me to a battery operated vibrator. Even though the device is said to be safe, I am still worried if I should use it.

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• I need a strong sex stimulant

You can use the vibrator as long as you are comfortable with it. However, you have to be mindful of the fact that as it is the case with all forms of masturbation, a long time use of the vibrator may cause some challenges for an enjoyable relationship in the future. Therefore, a very minimal use of the devise will be advisable.