Re: Still on premature ejaculation

Dear Yemisi,

I cannot last more than a minute in bed for years. I used various medications and herbals, but nothing changed.  I have given up.

Ishaq, Gombe, 0*06******5.

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Dear Yemisi,

I am having issue with quick ejaculation.

How can I get out of this predicament? Francis, 08**5******

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Dear  Yemisi,

I am a- 40- year old man. I am having issues with my sex life. I have discovered that I ejaculate quickly. I have taken so many herbs and drugs but all seem not working. I will be glad if you can advise me on what to do. Thanks,  vickey4real2016.

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pDear Yemisi,

Kindly help out of this serious mess I have been having with my wife sexually.  I have been having premature ejaculation for so long. Also, I can’t stay up to a minute with my wife. Kindly help me, Anonymous..

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Dear Yemisi,

What can I do to solve this problem of mine? I ejuculate within 10 seconds. What can I do to solve this problem? Kamo.

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Dear Yemisi,

I cannot have sex for 20 minutes. What could have made my manhood weak? After going for one round, my penis will just go to sleep.

Please, help me, Anonymous, 080***87**0.

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Dear Yemisi,

Kindly help me out of this mess.

My wife is not happy with me because I ejaculate too early. I cannot stay up to one minute. Please, help me. Anonymous, 0*0**5***1*.

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Dear Yemisi,

I have an issue with my sex ability. I discharge within a minute. Secondly, my manhood is very small when compared with my age. Kindly, bail me out.

Worried Man, 08*******09.

Dear brothers,

I have decided to reply you all together because you have the same problem with premature ejaculation.

This is not the time to give up as being threatened by one of you , but  the time to take your destiny in your hands.

Ejaculating too early could be described as releasing before or shortly after sexual penetration. It happens with minimal sexual stimulation and before you wish that results in unsatisfactory sex life for both partners. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common forms of male sexual dysfunction. I want all of you to see the problem as not being the only one suffering this problem. Every male adult will, at one time experience this anomaly.

Findings have not been able to detect the major cause of the problem. One can only get over it with sexual experience and age, majorly  by delaying orgasm. It is presumed that premature ejaculation tends to occur with a new partner. It may happen only in certain sexual situations or if it has been a long time since the last ejaculation. Psychological factors such as anxiety, guilt, or depression can also cause it. Its cause could also be medical as it manifests through   hormonal problems, injury, or a side effect of certain medicines.

In many cases premature ejaculation gets better on its own over time. Treatment may not be needed. Practising relaxation techniques or using distraction methods may help you delay ejaculation. For some men, stopping or cutting down on the use of alcohol, tobacco, or illegal drugs may improve how well they can control ejaculation.

Your visit to your doctor is the only sure way out of the problem as counsel from friends will confuse you the more. Your doctor may recommend that you and your partner practise certain techniques to help delay ejaculation which explains  why  you  must  see the doctor with your partner. I am not talking about your sex partner, but your wife.

The sessions with your doctor might involve asking you both questions on how you feel while in the act. Your doctor may even decide to teach you how to identify and control the sensations that lead up to ejaculation and learn how to communicate with your partner to slow or stop stimulation. Having sexual intercourse should be seen as fun rather than a do or die issue.

If you have not been using condom before, your visit might reveal why you need to wear condom when next you are going to have sex with your partner so as to reduce sensation.

Have you ever considered varying your positioning during intercourse? This might be the solution to having a prolonged ejaculation that will enhance your sex life.

You equally need counselling on how to reduce anxiety related to premature ejaculation.