Please, what can I do to win her back?

Dear Yemisi,

I am in love again with a girl who I have once dated. She told me then that she wanted to break up because she wanted to face her studies.

But I am still having feelings for the girl. I love her and I want her.

Please, what can I do to win her back?

Anonymous, 08138906578.

Dear Anonymous,

There is nothing to the best of my knowledge that you can do to win her back unless you respect her resolve. She has told you once that the reason she called it over with you before was her intention to face her studies, how do you now want her to go back on her decision.

If you want to have her as you have professed, allow your sense of decency and not selfishness to take better part of you else she will mess you up.

Give each other a clean break and wait till she feels she is ready to continue with you. There is a saying that if you love something, set it free and if it truly belongs to you, it will come back. No matter your insistence, if her heart is closed to your love, you cannot force it open.

Be man enough and never attempt to distract this lover of yours with inordinate quest for attention from your end. You should even admire her stand and not condemn her for not dancing to your dictate.

Dear Anonymous, hope for the best as you learn to respect other people’s opinion irrespective of dissenting view(s).