Handling disappointment (IV)

We have been looking at how to handle disappointment.

a)   Know it is common to man so there is nothing wrong with you—just know how to handle it.

b)   Resolve never to allow anything/anybody to steal/affect your joy and peace.

c)    Give people allowance they might disappoint. Implicit trust in anyone is dangerous. Implicit—unquestionable or unreserved absolute – trust is setting yourself up for disappointment. Man will always be man, only God is infallible.

d)    Effective communication will minimize misunderstanding and consequently disappointment.

f)     Diligent and effective plan. Plan with every possibility in mind.

–      Envisage loopholes, eventualities.

–      Develop foresight. “A prudent man foreseeth the evil, and hideth himself: but the simple pass on, and are punished.” Proverbs 22:3

g)    Feedback and reviews. Don’t make the same mistake twice.

h)   Pray.

i)     Seek counsel, seek help.

“Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble. Likewise, two people lying close together can keep each other warm. But how can one be warm alone? A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.” Ecclesiastes 4.9-13.

Don’t walk alone! When we are isolated from the Body of Christ, we invite unnecessary hardship into our lives. We become vulnerable to further attack from the enemy.

This scripture tells us that when we are struggling, it’s important that we have people around us who can help. If you’re finding it hard to overcome hurt and disappointment in your heart today, reach out to a Christian leader or trustworthy Christian friend so that you can talk about what you are going through and receive wisdom and prayer. Two are better than one!” Planetskaets.com

j)     Know there is much more for you so you cannot afford to be disabled by disappointment.

k) Make every disappointment an educational incident.

“True disappointment is an inevitable part of life, but can also be a stepping stone to growth and resilience. It is often only the fear of failure and disappointment that holds us back from living the life of our dreams.

Life often throws unexpected curves at us. These moments force us out of complacency and give way to new opportunities ahead. We must use the experience as fuel instead of letting it weaken or break down our spirit. Disappointment is a natural part of life’s journey, offering opportunities for growth and wisdom. We should view it as a lesson to foster resilience and personal development.” Resilientstories.com.

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