What could have been the cause of my lover’s pains?

Dear Yemisi,

Please, l need explanation on what to do.

My fiancé and I had extensive intercourse last month. Thereafter, my fiancee complained of serious stomachache.  Consequently, her menstruation was delayed for eight days before it flowed. Before she had her flow was restored, she also complained of feeling heavy in her breast and having pains.

What is now my source of worry is that two days after the onset of my girlfriend’s flow, the pains disappeared.

Please, what could have been the problem?

I am just concerned about this issue.

IBK.

Dear IBK,

I can understand the reason for your fears, but left to me you need not have fears since she has menstruated after the delay she experienced.

As long as she is the lady you are resolute in having as your wife I will advise that you insist she goes for a check with a medical doctor who is into gyneacology to ascertain that she did not have a miscarriage.

If she did experience aches and pains, she must undergo serious screening to be sure of her status. From experience, a lady could be menstruating while she is equally pregnant. You need not work to the answer yourself. Let an expert give you the right answer.

I hope in the process of waiting for her flow you did not assist in getting her some anti pregnancy pills! If your answer is yes, it is better you pressurize her to go for proper evacuation of the aborted pregnancy that have been caused by anxiety. If this is not done with dispatch it deserves, a permanent damage might be done.  All your fears are just pointing to the fact that you are not ready to be responsible for your actions.

If you must continue to have sexual intercourse with each other, you must agree on the preventive method to adopt so as to have peace of mind.

In the mean time, a stitch in time is said to save nine.