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WHAT can I do to have my girlfriend back? She called it quits with me because she travelled some years ago.

Now that she is back, she said she is no more interested in me without giving any reason.

Akanni, Internet.

 

Dear Akanni,

You are the one who knew what your relationship was with this girlfriend of yours before she travelled some years ago. Were you not in support of her travelling? Did she travel out of Nigeria?

When she was away, how frequent were you communicating with each other? On what basis was your relationship? Was it mutual? What plans did you have for your future when you started out?

I think your answers to the above posers will guide your next decision. If she is no longer interested in having you as her lover, it will be foolishness on your part to continue to force your affection on her.

What have you done to force words out of her mouth so as to know what informed her decision to  bid you bye. Akanni, life continues even if your girlfriend decides to call it quits with you. On the long run, you will have cause to smile for not being forceful.

You will not appreciate or understand the reason for her hesitation now, but with time you will. If you are destined for each other, there will be no opposition to your choice.

It is better you take your destiny in good fate and move on.

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